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	<title>Comments on: Prayer: Communion with yourself</title>
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		<title>By: Prayer: Why do it Anyway? &#171; de-conversion</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-19177</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Prayer: Why do it Anyway? &#171; de-conversion]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 May 2008 21:53:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] occasions including Simen&#8217;s What’s the Point with Prayer?, MysteryOfIniquity&#8217;s Prayer: Communion with yourself, and LeoPardus&#8217; Praying my way to losing [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] occasions including Simen&#8217;s What’s the Point with Prayer?, MysteryOfIniquity&#8217;s Prayer: Communion with yourself, and LeoPardus&#8217; Praying my way to losing [...]</p>
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		<title>By: mysteryofiniquity</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-6207</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mysteryofiniquity]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2007 23:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Silly Old Bear,
You&#039;re welcome!! :-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silly Old Bear,<br />
You&#8217;re welcome!! <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Silly Old Bear</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-6145</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Silly Old Bear]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 17:49:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;a href=&quot;http://dovaryeh.wordpress.com/2007/08/01/g-d-imaginary-friend-for-grown-ups/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;“G-d - Imaginary Friend for Grown-Ups?”&lt;/a&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://dovaryeh.wordpress.com/2007/08/01/g-d-imaginary-friend-for-grown-ups/" rel="nofollow">“G-d &#8211; Imaginary Friend for Grown-Ups?”</a></p>
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		<title>By: Silly Old Bear</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-6144</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Silly Old Bear]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 17:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have stolen part of this - it is sooooo good - thanks for the inspiration!:-)&lt;a href=&quot;http://dovaryeh.wordpress.com/2007/08/01/g-d-imaginary-friend-for-grown-ups/&quot; title=&quot;“G-d - Imaginary Friend for Grown-Ups?”&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have stolen part of this &#8211; it is sooooo good &#8211; thanks for the inspiration!:-)<a href="http://dovaryeh.wordpress.com/2007/08/01/g-d-imaginary-friend-for-grown-ups/" title="“G-d - Imaginary Friend for Grown-Ups?”" rel="nofollow"></a></p>
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		<title>By: MOI</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-382</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MOI]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2007 11:02:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[amandalaine,
Thanks for clearing it up. :-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>amandalaine,<br />
Thanks for clearing it up. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: amandalaine</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-379</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[amandalaine]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2007 02:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[MOI,

Did you mean to say you HAD deeply considered (instead of &quot;never&quot; deeply considered)? I had already gotten the idea that you and your fellow writers are very carefully thought out. Either way, my comment was directed at everyone, not you in particular. But, again, thanks for your answer!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MOI,</p>
<p>Did you mean to say you HAD deeply considered (instead of &#8220;never&#8221; deeply considered)? I had already gotten the idea that you and your fellow writers are very carefully thought out. Either way, my comment was directed at everyone, not you in particular. But, again, thanks for your answer!</p>
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		<title>By: Prayer: A woman's perspective &#171; Agnostic Atheism</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-366</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Prayer: A woman's perspective &#171; Agnostic Atheism]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 18:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] claim to ever have communed with &#8220;God,&#8221; as stated in my previous blog &#8220;Prayer: Communion with yourself,&#8221; but I got to know myself pretty well, especially as a [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] claim to ever have communed with &#8220;God,&#8221; as stated in my previous blog &#8220;Prayer: Communion with yourself,&#8221; but I got to know myself pretty well, especially as a [...]</p>
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		<title>By: mysteryofiniquity</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-362</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[mysteryofiniquity]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 14:44:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[aA,
I caught myself &quot;praying&quot; this morning for a co-worker who underwent a quintuple heart bypass this morning. For the first time, I caught myself short and thought, &quot;Whatever&#039;s will or has happened has happened already and my prayer will not affect a thing!&quot;  I suddenly realized that prayer is like a pacifier; comforting when in infancy, but eventually must be outgrown to let your permanent teeth grow in straight. :-)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>aA,<br />
I caught myself &#8220;praying&#8221; this morning for a co-worker who underwent a quintuple heart bypass this morning. For the first time, I caught myself short and thought, &#8220;Whatever&#8217;s will or has happened has happened already and my prayer will not affect a thing!&#8221;  I suddenly realized that prayer is like a pacifier; comforting when in infancy, but eventually must be outgrown to let your permanent teeth grow in straight. <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: agnosticatheist</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-361</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[agnosticatheist]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 14:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[moi,

Very good post. 

I remember when my teenage daughter when to Europe on a trip, I felt so helpless because I couldn’t be there to watch over her. It was very comforting for me to pray “God, please take care of my daughter” and sit back and know it’s taken care of. It was at that moment I realized that the prayer was for my benefit not my daughter.

The reality is bad things happen all the time in spite of prayer. However, prayer does give us a sense of security (even though it is a false sense of security) that we’re trusting in a higher being to take care of things that we can’t do ourselves.

In essence, it&#039;s for our benefit not necessarily the benefit of the recipient of our prayers.  Unless, of course, they know we&#039;re praying for them and that makes them feel good.

aA]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>moi,</p>
<p>Very good post. </p>
<p>I remember when my teenage daughter when to Europe on a trip, I felt so helpless because I couldn’t be there to watch over her. It was very comforting for me to pray “God, please take care of my daughter” and sit back and know it’s taken care of. It was at that moment I realized that the prayer was for my benefit not my daughter.</p>
<p>The reality is bad things happen all the time in spite of prayer. However, prayer does give us a sense of security (even though it is a false sense of security) that we’re trusting in a higher being to take care of things that we can’t do ourselves.</p>
<p>In essence, it&#8217;s for our benefit not necessarily the benefit of the recipient of our prayers.  Unless, of course, they know we&#8217;re praying for them and that makes them feel good.</p>
<p>aA</p>
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		<title>By: MOI</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/04/09/being-who-you-are-not-who-you-arent/#comment-359</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[MOI]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2007 11:05:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[amandalaine,
The assumption with our posts is that we&#039;ve never &quot;deeply considered&quot; the bible. Most of us here have spent 20+ years deeply considering the bible and find it wanting. But you&#039;re right. The Psalms are the heartfelt prayers of David and others.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>amandalaine,<br />
The assumption with our posts is that we&#8217;ve never &#8220;deeply considered&#8221; the bible. Most of us here have spent 20+ years deeply considering the bible and find it wanting. But you&#8217;re right. The Psalms are the heartfelt prayers of David and others.</p>
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