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	<title>Comments on: Why me, Lord? Why did I de-convert?</title>
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		<title>By: SnugglyBuffalo</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22895</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[SnugglyBuffalo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 22:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;blockquote&gt;I “accepted” Christ, and then all the promises became MINE–when I exercise “faith” I am simply acknowledging something I already have in my possession.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
This is something I&#039;m pretty sure every one of us de-cons experienced. Eventually, we reach a point where we start to doubt, and holding to those promises did nothing for our faith, nothing to help us with our doubts.

&lt;blockquote&gt;We say with the leper “Lord I believe, help thou mine unbelief” and we go to the promises and hold on to them.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
We did this, and in spite of it we end up in complete unbelief anyway.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I “accepted” Christ, and then all the promises became MINE–when I exercise “faith” I am simply acknowledging something I already have in my possession.</p></blockquote>
<p>This is something I&#8217;m pretty sure every one of us de-cons experienced. Eventually, we reach a point where we start to doubt, and holding to those promises did nothing for our faith, nothing to help us with our doubts.</p>
<blockquote><p>We say with the leper “Lord I believe, help thou mine unbelief” and we go to the promises and hold on to them.</p></blockquote>
<p>We did this, and in spite of it we end up in complete unbelief anyway.</p>
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		<title>By: BigHouse</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22889</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you, Joe, this helps.  So the timeline is:

1. You were unaware of the promises
2. You were shown the promises
3. Faith in the promises appears to you/in you/however you want to describe it

So again, my question is, why does this same timeline not occur for you with the fitness equipment salesmen?  Steps 1 and 2 exist EXACTLY the same way.  Why no step 3?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Joe, this helps.  So the timeline is:</p>
<p>1. You were unaware of the promises<br />
2. You were shown the promises<br />
3. Faith in the promises appears to you/in you/however you want to describe it</p>
<p>So again, my question is, why does this same timeline not occur for you with the fitness equipment salesmen?  Steps 1 and 2 exist EXACTLY the same way.  Why no step 3?</p>
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		<title>By: SnugglyBuffalo</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22887</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[SnugglyBuffalo]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:46:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;blockquote&gt;Wow - this thread has taken on a life of its own recently! We might even say it has been “born again.” ;-) &lt;/blockquote&gt;
I prefer the more common concept of &quot;thread necromancy.&quot; This thread has risen as an undead abomination. :P

I share prodigal daughter&#039;s sentiment. I wish I could stay in the faith. It would make things a lot easier for me; I wouldn&#039;t have to deal with telling my family and friends, I could continue to hold comfortable, fundamental beliefs that I don&#039;t want to give up.

That doesn&#039;t change the fact that I&#039;ve had faith as you describe it. I&#039;ve held to God&#039;s promises, and gained faith because of it. Later, I realized the thing I was holding to didn&#039;t exist.

&lt;blockquote&gt;I think if you are truly sincere you will have to admit that yes, you did see many Christians who appeared to be “staying in one place”—but there were other examples—-Christians that you saw with real joy, victory, and a real heart for the Lord.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Sure, some Christian&#039;s improve their lives through Christianity. But I would argue it is they themselves who are improving their lives, using Christianity as the motivator. My point is that when I look at Christians, I don&#039;t see a ladder, though the Christians firmly believe it is there. They point to the impact the climb has had on their lives and faith, but as far as I can tell any impact originated in themselves. I suppose I can get rid of the &quot;staying in one place&quot; line, and suggest that any movement Christians have is due to themselves, and not their &quot;climb&quot; up a non-existent ladder.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>Wow &#8211; this thread has taken on a life of its own recently! We might even say it has been “born again.” <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p></blockquote>
<p>I prefer the more common concept of &#8220;thread necromancy.&#8221; This thread has risen as an undead abomination. <img src='http://s2.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I share prodigal daughter&#8217;s sentiment. I wish I could stay in the faith. It would make things a lot easier for me; I wouldn&#8217;t have to deal with telling my family and friends, I could continue to hold comfortable, fundamental beliefs that I don&#8217;t want to give up.</p>
<p>That doesn&#8217;t change the fact that I&#8217;ve had faith as you describe it. I&#8217;ve held to God&#8217;s promises, and gained faith because of it. Later, I realized the thing I was holding to didn&#8217;t exist.</p>
<blockquote><p>I think if you are truly sincere you will have to admit that yes, you did see many Christians who appeared to be “staying in one place”—but there were other examples—-Christians that you saw with real joy, victory, and a real heart for the Lord.</p></blockquote>
<p>Sure, some Christian&#8217;s improve their lives through Christianity. But I would argue it is they themselves who are improving their lives, using Christianity as the motivator. My point is that when I look at Christians, I don&#8217;t see a ladder, though the Christians firmly believe it is there. They point to the impact the climb has had on their lives and faith, but as far as I can tell any impact originated in themselves. I suppose I can get rid of the &#8220;staying in one place&#8221; line, and suggest that any movement Christians have is due to themselves, and not their &#8220;climb&#8221; up a non-existent ladder.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22886</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joe, but you sadi yourself that didn’t know these things before your neighbor handed you the gospel of John and you read it.

Are you really ducking the question that reading the Bible triggered your belief?

BigHouse---

I&#039;m sorry if I was misunderstanding---not trying to &quot;duck anything&quot; at all. I readily agree that the Bible triggered my belief by putting a &quot;promise&quot; in front of me that faith came to me out of.  I &quot;accepted&quot; Christ, and then all the promises became MINE--when I exercise &quot;faith&quot; I am simply acknowledging something I already have in my possession.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, but you sadi yourself that didn’t know these things before your neighbor handed you the gospel of John and you read it.</p>
<p>Are you really ducking the question that reading the Bible triggered your belief?</p>
<p>BigHouse&#8212;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry if I was misunderstanding&#8212;not trying to &#8220;duck anything&#8221; at all. I readily agree that the Bible triggered my belief by putting a &#8220;promise&#8221; in front of me that faith came to me out of.  I &#8220;accepted&#8221; Christ, and then all the promises became MINE&#8211;when I exercise &#8220;faith&#8221; I am simply acknowledging something I already have in my possession.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:36:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joe, but you came to Christ by reading the Bible. You told the story here on this website last week.

Why did make that leap of faith?

Bighouse----

I am proceeding from the premise that you &quot;used to be a Christian&quot; (and some would argue that if you really received Christ you still are, but deny  that fact).  Faith is a &quot;gift from God&quot; as it states in Ephesians 2:8,9 &quot;By Grace have you been saved, through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is the GIFT OF GOD, not of works, lest any man should boast.&quot;

When I got saved I &quot;accepted&quot; Christ.  I did not make some &quot;logical and long drawn out, thought out process of coming to a decision of whether or not to receive him&quot;. I simply &quot;asked&quot; Jesus to come into my heart.

When I did that He did come in.  At that point ALL OF THE PROMISES for believers in the BIble BECAME MINE.  Faith from that point on became an &quot;acknowledgement&quot; of promises that were ALREADY MINE----I didn&#039;t have to have faith to believe them-----faith actually came FROM THEM----it&#039;s the reverse of how we think naturally.

For example BigHouse---if you did accept Christ for real into your heart, all the promises are STILL YOURS----you are just denying they are real.  if you were to return to Christ (I know----highly doubtful  LOL) you could approach Jesus from 1 John 1:9--a promise that you already possess, and confess your unbelief to him.  He WOULD forgive you because he already PROMISED  he would if you aksed.

You wouldn&#039;t have to go to Jesus like a salesman to &quot;buy&quot; an item from him-----you would use promises you ALREADY POSSESS.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, but you came to Christ by reading the Bible. You told the story here on this website last week.</p>
<p>Why did make that leap of faith?</p>
<p>Bighouse&#8212;-</p>
<p>I am proceeding from the premise that you &#8220;used to be a Christian&#8221; (and some would argue that if you really received Christ you still are, but deny  that fact).  Faith is a &#8220;gift from God&#8221; as it states in Ephesians 2:8,9 &#8220;By Grace have you been saved, through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is the GIFT OF GOD, not of works, lest any man should boast.&#8221;</p>
<p>When I got saved I &#8220;accepted&#8221; Christ.  I did not make some &#8220;logical and long drawn out, thought out process of coming to a decision of whether or not to receive him&#8221;. I simply &#8220;asked&#8221; Jesus to come into my heart.</p>
<p>When I did that He did come in.  At that point ALL OF THE PROMISES for believers in the BIble BECAME MINE.  Faith from that point on became an &#8220;acknowledgement&#8221; of promises that were ALREADY MINE&#8212;-I didn&#8217;t have to have faith to believe them&#8212;&#8211;faith actually came FROM THEM&#8212;-it&#8217;s the reverse of how we think naturally.</p>
<p>For example BigHouse&#8212;if you did accept Christ for real into your heart, all the promises are STILL YOURS&#8212;-you are just denying they are real.  if you were to return to Christ (I know&#8212;-highly doubtful  LOL) you could approach Jesus from 1 John 1:9&#8211;a promise that you already possess, and confess your unbelief to him.  He WOULD forgive you because he already PROMISED  he would if you aksed.</p>
<p>You wouldn&#8217;t have to go to Jesus like a salesman to &#8220;buy&#8221; an item from him&#8212;&#8211;you would use promises you ALREADY POSSESS.</p>
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		<title>By: BigHouse</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[BigHouse]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joe, but you sadi yourself that didn&#039;t know these things before your neighbor handed you the gospel of John and you read it.

Are you really ducking the question that reading the Bible triggered your belief?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, but you sadi yourself that didn&#8217;t know these things before your neighbor handed you the gospel of John and you read it.</p>
<p>Are you really ducking the question that reading the Bible triggered your belief?</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22881</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bighouse---

Just as an example, the Bible says &quot;These things we write onto you so that you may KNOW that you HAVE eternal life&quot;.

Faith would not be &quot;trying&quot; to believe that----it would be accepting it as a fact---as something you POSSESS--then true faith is being used.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bighouse&#8212;</p>
<p>Just as an example, the Bible says &#8220;These things we write onto you so that you may KNOW that you HAVE eternal life&#8221;.</p>
<p>Faith would not be &#8220;trying&#8221; to believe that&#8212;-it would be accepting it as a fact&#8212;as something you POSSESS&#8211;then true faith is being used.</p>
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		<title>By: BigHouse</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22880</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[BigHouse]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:23:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joe, but you came to Christ by reading the Bible.  You told the story here on this website last week.

Why did make that leap of faith?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joe, but you came to Christ by reading the Bible.  You told the story here on this website last week.</p>
<p>Why did make that leap of faith?</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22879</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:22:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[BigHouse---

Because I already received Christ.  EVERYTHING in the Bible is ALREADY mine.   I&#039;d have to BUY the equipment I know nothing about from the salesman----it isn&#039;t MINE.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BigHouse&#8212;</p>
<p>Because I already received Christ.  EVERYTHING in the Bible is ALREADY mine.   I&#8217;d have to BUY the equipment I know nothing about from the salesman&#8212;-it isn&#8217;t MINE.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2007/11/03/why-me-lord-why-did-i-de-convert/#comment-22878</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joe]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 21:19:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Karen-----

I think if you read my original post you will see I was addressing 
&quot;Prodigal Daughter&quot; who said she &quot;wished&quot; she could have the &quot;die-hard faith&quot; of her relatives. I addressed her concerning faith because she seemed to be showing a &quot;desire&quot; to have more.

I did not originally post directed at someone like yourself who no longer believes.  I know that is a waste of time.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen&#8212;&#8211;</p>
<p>I think if you read my original post you will see I was addressing<br />
&#8220;Prodigal Daughter&#8221; who said she &#8220;wished&#8221; she could have the &#8220;die-hard faith&#8221; of her relatives. I addressed her concerning faith because she seemed to be showing a &#8220;desire&#8221; to have more.</p>
<p>I did not originally post directed at someone like yourself who no longer believes.  I know that is a waste of time.</p>
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