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		<title>By: Quester</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47186</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 03:49:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve had wonderful experiences with people pulling over with cell phones, shovels and/or tow ropes while I was stuck in a snowbank (gotta love winter driving in the Canadian prairies).

I&#039;ve also had wonderful experiences in Christian rally groups and charismatic events.

Again, I&#039;ve watched people drive on winter roads in ways likely to kill or seriously injure others, and people act in &quot;spiritual&quot; contexts in ways prone to manipulate, belittle, and take advantage of others.

People is people: more gracious than any angel could dream of; more destructive than any devil could aspire to. And that&#039;s sometimes the same individual, one moment to the next.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had wonderful experiences with people pulling over with cell phones, shovels and/or tow ropes while I was stuck in a snowbank (gotta love winter driving in the Canadian prairies).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also had wonderful experiences in Christian rally groups and charismatic events.</p>
<p>Again, I&#8217;ve watched people drive on winter roads in ways likely to kill or seriously injure others, and people act in &#8220;spiritual&#8221; contexts in ways prone to manipulate, belittle, and take advantage of others.</p>
<p>People is people: more gracious than any angel could dream of; more destructive than any devil could aspire to. And that&#8217;s sometimes the same individual, one moment to the next.</p>
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		<title>By: prairienymph</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47183</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 03:20:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That is true.  I love the instant community formed during a snowstorm when everyone gets stuck.  
My husband actually told me not to read parts of Buchan&#039;s writing where he talks about gender roles :)

Revival is really more my husband&#039;s issue than mine.  I&#039;ve seen the divisions that revival can bring right in my own family.  But most people talk about it as if it was the best part of their life and they wish they could stay there.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is true.  I love the instant community formed during a snowstorm when everyone gets stuck.<br />
My husband actually told me not to read parts of Buchan&#8217;s writing where he talks about gender roles <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Revival is really more my husband&#8217;s issue than mine.  I&#8217;ve seen the divisions that revival can bring right in my own family.  But most people talk about it as if it was the best part of their life and they wish they could stay there.</p>
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		<title>By: Quester</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47181</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 03:08:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#039;t get me wrong, Sarah, I have spoken with people grateful for their times as students in residential schools, glad for the opportunities to learn many things, not least of which (from their perspective) was the story of Christianity. They felt that their lives, and the lives of their children, benefited from the experience. I&#039;ve also spoken with people who taught at residential schools, and heard of their heartache as the children they loved as their own grew up to speak of the horrors of the residential school system. I&#039;ve heard from past students who had been physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually abused in the schools. There&#039;s rarely only one story, let alone one side of the story.

Let&#039;s take Angus Buchan as another example of that. I did not grow up on stories of revival. I had to do some research to find out who Buchan is. One one hand, he is a faithful man of God, running an orphanage on his own property, and leading people in reportedly successful prayers for rain, crops and prosperity. On the other, he is apparently a man who preaches to tens of thousands of people at a time. All of them male. Almost all of them white. The vast majority of them Afrikaner. With the end of apartheid, it is much harder for these men to get and keep the well-paying jobs they once could take for granted. Thanks to new employment equity laws, they could end up competing for jobs with their own wives. It&#039;s a rather drastic turnabout of affairs. And Buchan preaches to them at Mighty Men conferences, telling them that the way to fix the country is to take their proper place in their own families- the position of prophet, priest and king- earning bread for the table, cherishing and protecting their wives and disciplining their children. He preaches biblically supported roles for men and women, and the disempowered men come out in droves to hear him. An estimated 3,000 white farmers have been murdered since the end of apatheid, and Buchan preaches to the survivors that their masculinity might be restored.

As for communities coming together, it happens more often than one might think, especially if there is a sudden disaster that simple actions now might appreciably affect.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, Sarah, I have spoken with people grateful for their times as students in residential schools, glad for the opportunities to learn many things, not least of which (from their perspective) was the story of Christianity. They felt that their lives, and the lives of their children, benefited from the experience. I&#8217;ve also spoken with people who taught at residential schools, and heard of their heartache as the children they loved as their own grew up to speak of the horrors of the residential school system. I&#8217;ve heard from past students who had been physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually abused in the schools. There&#8217;s rarely only one story, let alone one side of the story.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take Angus Buchan as another example of that. I did not grow up on stories of revival. I had to do some research to find out who Buchan is. One one hand, he is a faithful man of God, running an orphanage on his own property, and leading people in reportedly successful prayers for rain, crops and prosperity. On the other, he is apparently a man who preaches to tens of thousands of people at a time. All of them male. Almost all of them white. The vast majority of them Afrikaner. With the end of apartheid, it is much harder for these men to get and keep the well-paying jobs they once could take for granted. Thanks to new employment equity laws, they could end up competing for jobs with their own wives. It&#8217;s a rather drastic turnabout of affairs. And Buchan preaches to them at Mighty Men conferences, telling them that the way to fix the country is to take their proper place in their own families- the position of prophet, priest and king- earning bread for the table, cherishing and protecting their wives and disciplining their children. He preaches biblically supported roles for men and women, and the disempowered men come out in droves to hear him. An estimated 3,000 white farmers have been murdered since the end of apatheid, and Buchan preaches to the survivors that their masculinity might be restored.</p>
<p>As for communities coming together, it happens more often than one might think, especially if there is a sudden disaster that simple actions now might appreciably affect.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47139</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 16:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The reference to the Native tribes in BC came from a conversation I had with a masters student on the bus.  She was not a christian and was fascinated with how certain tribes credited christianity with positive changes.  I may have misunderstood her- I did not do any independent research.  There was no mention of residential schools.  I don&#039;t think anyone could call them good.

I grew up on stories of revival.  Our church came from a denounced pentecostal revival.  Orphanages mostly were given as examples of community coming together.  The orphanage I helped out in India was a joint venture between our group, some Catholics, Anglicans and occasionally- Hindus.  That may have been more from the fact that it is a good thing to support orphans rather than the Holy Spirit?

Perhaps the stories from Angus Buchan and South Africa have more to do with giving people a different &#039;tribe&#039; so they stop fighting each other and come together to fight something else?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The reference to the Native tribes in BC came from a conversation I had with a masters student on the bus.  She was not a christian and was fascinated with how certain tribes credited christianity with positive changes.  I may have misunderstood her- I did not do any independent research.  There was no mention of residential schools.  I don&#8217;t think anyone could call them good.</p>
<p>I grew up on stories of revival.  Our church came from a denounced pentecostal revival.  Orphanages mostly were given as examples of community coming together.  The orphanage I helped out in India was a joint venture between our group, some Catholics, Anglicans and occasionally- Hindus.  That may have been more from the fact that it is a good thing to support orphans rather than the Holy Spirit?</p>
<p>Perhaps the stories from Angus Buchan and South Africa have more to do with giving people a different &#8216;tribe&#8217; so they stop fighting each other and come together to fight something else?</p>
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		<title>By: Quester</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47067</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Quester]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 20:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;ve never experienced a revival, Christian or not, that brought together all people, including people outside of the reviving group, together to join forces for good. What Christian revival have you heard of that was willing to work with non-Christians or Christians of &quot;insufficiently orthodox&quot; denominations in order to build community or help the poor? Your example of native tribes in Western Canada particularly interests me, in the light that one Anglican diocese in British Columbia went bankrupt due to court costs from being sued by Native Canadians who were forced by Christians into residential schools, and another in Saskatchewan almost followed it. Christianity brought what can be seen as social improvement to native tribes in Canada, but did so by breaking up their families and trying to destroy their language and culture. I see a difference between bringing together warring factions, and trying to destroy anyone who disagrees.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve never experienced a revival, Christian or not, that brought together all people, including people outside of the reviving group, together to join forces for good. What Christian revival have you heard of that was willing to work with non-Christians or Christians of &#8220;insufficiently orthodox&#8221; denominations in order to build community or help the poor? Your example of native tribes in Western Canada particularly interests me, in the light that one Anglican diocese in British Columbia went bankrupt due to court costs from being sued by Native Canadians who were forced by Christians into residential schools, and another in Saskatchewan almost followed it. Christianity brought what can be seen as social improvement to native tribes in Canada, but did so by breaking up their families and trying to destroy their language and culture. I see a difference between bringing together warring factions, and trying to destroy anyone who disagrees.</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47036</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 13:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That is the catch: all of our ideals fall short in reality.  I&#039;ve heard it said so many times that any style of government would be perfect if people were.  Communism would be wonderful if people didn&#039;t take advantage of its weaknesses.  Same with capitalism.  Communitarianism sounds a lot more interesting than libertarianism, but neither would produce utopia because people hurt still hurt each other and the rest of the world.

I&#039;d say our tendency to group off into tribes (us vs them instead of I-thou) is at the root of religious differences.

But, revivals have claimed to overcome these differences, not on at an individual level, but on a community basis.  I&#039;ve only ever heard of Christian revivals though.  Has anyone experienced a non-Christian &#039;revival&#039;?  Would banding together to cheer for the same soccer team produce them same results?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is the catch: all of our ideals fall short in reality.  I&#8217;ve heard it said so many times that any style of government would be perfect if people were.  Communism would be wonderful if people didn&#8217;t take advantage of its weaknesses.  Same with capitalism.  Communitarianism sounds a lot more interesting than libertarianism, but neither would produce utopia because people hurt still hurt each other and the rest of the world.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d say our tendency to group off into tribes (us vs them instead of I-thou) is at the root of religious differences.</p>
<p>But, revivals have claimed to overcome these differences, not on at an individual level, but on a community basis.  I&#8217;ve only ever heard of Christian revivals though.  Has anyone experienced a non-Christian &#8216;revival&#8217;?  Would banding together to cheer for the same soccer team produce them same results?</p>
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		<title>By: Quester</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-47015</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Quester]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Really? Interesting. I&#039;m unfamiliar with Communism, particularly how it might be practised in China or Russia. It never really interested me. How many factions does Communism have? Are there even a tenth as many as there are Christian denominations? Has Communism as a concept lasted even a tenth as long as Christendom?

All I know about Communism sounds much like the Christian church of the first century: no class distinctions, property owned in common, collective society making decisions for the common good, et cetera. It sounds like the Christian ideal.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really? Interesting. I&#8217;m unfamiliar with Communism, particularly how it might be practised in China or Russia. It never really interested me. How many factions does Communism have? Are there even a tenth as many as there are Christian denominations? Has Communism as a concept lasted even a tenth as long as Christendom?</p>
<p>All I know about Communism sounds much like the Christian church of the first century: no class distinctions, property owned in common, collective society making decisions for the common good, et cetera. It sounds like the Christian ideal.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 03:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Is there anything outside of Christendom that has the same results as inspiring factions to destroy the other, and causing people to spend much of their lives fearing and hating the unknown?&quot;

Yes.  It is called Communism.  Particularly the Chinese and Russian varieties.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Is there anything outside of Christendom that has the same results as inspiring factions to destroy the other, and causing people to spend much of their lives fearing and hating the unknown?&#8221;</p>
<p>Yes.  It is called Communism.  Particularly the Chinese and Russian varieties.</p>
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		<title>By: Quester</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/01/29/part-of-the-problem-the-way-i-see-it-anyway/#comment-46966</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Quester]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 18:51:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;i&gt;Isn’t the example of a changed life point to something?&lt;/i&gt;

Yes, but what? Is it something within or outside of human nature? Is it always the same something, or could it be many different somethings, depending on the circumstances? If Christendom wasn&#039;t spread by empires, would something else have filled the same role? 

Is there anything outside of Christendom that has the same results as inspiring factions to destroy the other, and causing people to spend much of their lives fearing and hating the different and the unknown? Individually, there are many examples, but corporately, over the span of history? And does this really say anything about Christendom, or just about people?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Isn’t the example of a changed life point to something?</i></p>
<p>Yes, but what? Is it something within or outside of human nature? Is it always the same something, or could it be many different somethings, depending on the circumstances? If Christendom wasn&#8217;t spread by empires, would something else have filled the same role? </p>
<p>Is there anything outside of Christendom that has the same results as inspiring factions to destroy the other, and causing people to spend much of their lives fearing and hating the different and the unknown? Individually, there are many examples, but corporately, over the span of history? And does this really say anything about Christendom, or just about people?</p>
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		<title>By: prairienymph</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[prairienymph]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 17:06:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Spong was my gateway drug out of biblical inerrancy.  It was because he called himself a bible-loving Christian that I had the courage to read any of his books.  Do you think he is a double agent :)

One thing I am interested in is revival.  There have been many self-reported cases of revival bringing about positive social change.  I&#039;m thinking of the Transformations video series about how revivals brought positive change in whole town and cities), Bruchko, the Auca/Waurani, revivals in South Africa lead by Angus Buchan, and even certain native tribes in Western Canada that credit Christianity with social improvement.  I&#039;ve been in India and witnessed how Christians treat the outcasts, tribals, lepers, orphans and widows so much better than many of their Hindu counterparts.

Is there anything outside of Christian revival that has the same results as bringing together warring factions of people, and causing people to spend much of their lives helping the poor and unfortunate?  Individually I&#039;m sure there are many examples, but corporately?

Isn&#039;t the example of a changed life point to something?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spong was my gateway drug out of biblical inerrancy.  It was because he called himself a bible-loving Christian that I had the courage to read any of his books.  Do you think he is a double agent <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>One thing I am interested in is revival.  There have been many self-reported cases of revival bringing about positive social change.  I&#8217;m thinking of the Transformations video series about how revivals brought positive change in whole town and cities), Bruchko, the Auca/Waurani, revivals in South Africa lead by Angus Buchan, and even certain native tribes in Western Canada that credit Christianity with social improvement.  I&#8217;ve been in India and witnessed how Christians treat the outcasts, tribals, lepers, orphans and widows so much better than many of their Hindu counterparts.</p>
<p>Is there anything outside of Christian revival that has the same results as bringing together warring factions of people, and causing people to spend much of their lives helping the poor and unfortunate?  Individually I&#8217;m sure there are many examples, but corporately?</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t the example of a changed life point to something?</p>
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