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		<title>By: George</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/07/16/existentialism-and-the-search-for-meaning/#comment-37232</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 22:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, what does that mean?  Don&#039;t think there is an answer...is there???]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, what does that mean?  Don&#8217;t think there is an answer&#8230;is there???</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 22:13:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[dove what does that mean?]]></description>
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		<title>By: dovelove</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/07/16/existentialism-and-the-search-for-meaning/#comment-23711</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 16:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Zen is not the finger, is not the gesture, is not the word “moon” – it is the immediate experience of seeing the moon oneself.&quot;

I find it interesting that &quot;seeing&quot; the moon is what you think he meant when he pointed to the moon.  Symbolically, on the positive side, the moon represents a plethora of emotion (feeling), creativity (invariably spurred by emotion, the most beautiful and brilliant creations anyway), femininity, imagination...  On the negative side, the moon strongly represents fear (feeling).  

Yeah, the answer was that we should experience life, but life is more than just &quot;seeing.&quot;  Much more.  Thankfully :)

We &quot;need&quot; meaning, because deep down we know that there is meaning, heh  It is our lofty &quot;thinking&quot; in lieu of feeling that impedes us -- greatly.  Even so, we know there&#039;s &quot;something.&quot;  We know (feel).  The problem is we think of ourselves as such lowly ones (per religious teachings), that it&#039;s inconceivable to us that this &quot;something&quot; is actually what we are, under all the superficial layers.  

And when we plug into that &quot;Zen&quot; thing, we can feel it.  When we experience &quot;miracles,&quot; like all that intriguing mind-body stuff, we can see it.  In those fleeting moments when we allow ourselves to be &quot;psychic&quot; and allow ourselves to see kinda magical things in this life, we&#039;re seeing that &quot;meaning,&quot; briefly... Our lofty thinking cuts it short for some reason.  Maybe &#039;cause we&#039;re feelin&#039; the other side of the moon, heh  Lotsa fear.  Fear that we may be more, and that&#039;s just too freaky, lol ;)  And besides, that&#039;s not what &quot;dad&quot; told us -- &quot;worthless little shit.&quot;  Sad.

When we &quot;pray&quot; (powerful emotions married to our powerful words or thoughts), we see the results of that power.  Power that is coming from us (science has proven the power of &quot;prayer&quot;).  When star athletes affirm (feeling/words) and visualize their next win, they later see the &quot;magic&quot; of those thoughts/feelings as the cross the finish line...  They&#039;re not &quot;praying&quot; to a &quot;God&quot; outside of them with their affirmations, but the one within them.  Same results.  Interesting :)

Like the moon, the symbol of the &quot;devil&quot; also has two sides.  On a good day, &quot;he&quot; is about our passion and amazing sexuality -- good stuff :)  On the other days, that symbol is about our intense fear, self-loathing and all that.  Damn right ,&quot;he&quot; (fear) controls us a lot of the time...holds us back from truly living and enjoying life.  We allow him too anyway.  

So unfortunate...and it is religious teachings that have taught us to wallow in his bad self -- and even hate and deny the very good side of &quot;him&quot; (powerful passion and sexuality).  And oddly enough, that side of us is rocket fuel for creating very cool things.  Very empowering -- do ya&#039; not feel powerful, even courageous, in passionate moments (sexual or otherwise)?  (The moon, emotions, remember?)  Hmm, now why would a mega-controlling social system (religion) want to keep that from us?? :)

We don&#039;t need meaning, we are the &quot;meaning&quot; :)

Peace,
Dove]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Zen is not the finger, is not the gesture, is not the word “moon” – it is the immediate experience of seeing the moon oneself.&#8221;</p>
<p>I find it interesting that &#8220;seeing&#8221; the moon is what you think he meant when he pointed to the moon.  Symbolically, on the positive side, the moon represents a plethora of emotion (feeling), creativity (invariably spurred by emotion, the most beautiful and brilliant creations anyway), femininity, imagination&#8230;  On the negative side, the moon strongly represents fear (feeling).  </p>
<p>Yeah, the answer was that we should experience life, but life is more than just &#8220;seeing.&#8221;  Much more.  Thankfully <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>We &#8220;need&#8221; meaning, because deep down we know that there is meaning, heh  It is our lofty &#8220;thinking&#8221; in lieu of feeling that impedes us &#8212; greatly.  Even so, we know there&#8217;s &#8220;something.&#8221;  We know (feel).  The problem is we think of ourselves as such lowly ones (per religious teachings), that it&#8217;s inconceivable to us that this &#8220;something&#8221; is actually what we are, under all the superficial layers.  </p>
<p>And when we plug into that &#8220;Zen&#8221; thing, we can feel it.  When we experience &#8220;miracles,&#8221; like all that intriguing mind-body stuff, we can see it.  In those fleeting moments when we allow ourselves to be &#8220;psychic&#8221; and allow ourselves to see kinda magical things in this life, we&#8217;re seeing that &#8220;meaning,&#8221; briefly&#8230; Our lofty thinking cuts it short for some reason.  Maybe &#8217;cause we&#8217;re feelin&#8217; the other side of the moon, heh  Lotsa fear.  Fear that we may be more, and that&#8217;s just too freaky, lol <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   And besides, that&#8217;s not what &#8220;dad&#8221; told us &#8212; &#8220;worthless little shit.&#8221;  Sad.</p>
<p>When we &#8220;pray&#8221; (powerful emotions married to our powerful words or thoughts), we see the results of that power.  Power that is coming from us (science has proven the power of &#8220;prayer&#8221;).  When star athletes affirm (feeling/words) and visualize their next win, they later see the &#8220;magic&#8221; of those thoughts/feelings as the cross the finish line&#8230;  They&#8217;re not &#8220;praying&#8221; to a &#8220;God&#8221; outside of them with their affirmations, but the one within them.  Same results.  Interesting <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Like the moon, the symbol of the &#8220;devil&#8221; also has two sides.  On a good day, &#8220;he&#8221; is about our passion and amazing sexuality &#8212; good stuff <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   On the other days, that symbol is about our intense fear, self-loathing and all that.  Damn right ,&#8221;he&#8221; (fear) controls us a lot of the time&#8230;holds us back from truly living and enjoying life.  We allow him too anyway.  </p>
<p>So unfortunate&#8230;and it is religious teachings that have taught us to wallow in his bad self &#8212; and even hate and deny the very good side of &#8220;him&#8221; (powerful passion and sexuality).  And oddly enough, that side of us is rocket fuel for creating very cool things.  Very empowering &#8212; do ya&#8217; not feel powerful, even courageous, in passionate moments (sexual or otherwise)?  (The moon, emotions, remember?)  Hmm, now why would a mega-controlling social system (religion) want to keep that from us?? <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>We don&#8217;t need meaning, we are the &#8220;meaning&#8221; <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Peace,<br />
Dove</p>
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		<title>By: TheNerd</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/07/16/existentialism-and-the-search-for-meaning/#comment-22985</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 15:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;blockquote cite=&quot;&quot;&gt; In fact, there is sometimes whats known as an “extinction burst”, wherein the rate of behavior actually increases, briefly, following the cessation of reinforcement. &lt;/blockquote&gt; 

I can&#039;t help but apply this to another part of our lives (some of our lives, anyway): parenting.  It&#039;s a fact - children will get worse before they break a bad habit, and that &quot;getting worse&quot; phase is where most parents give up.  Now that you know, perhaps you can be more effective at discipline.  [end side comment]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote cite=""><p> In fact, there is sometimes whats known as an “extinction burst”, wherein the rate of behavior actually increases, briefly, following the cessation of reinforcement. </p></blockquote>
<p>I can&#8217;t help but apply this to another part of our lives (some of our lives, anyway): parenting.  It&#8217;s a fact &#8211; children will get worse before they break a bad habit, and that &#8220;getting worse&#8221; phase is where most parents give up.  Now that you know, perhaps you can be more effective at discipline.  [end side comment]</p>
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		<title>By: ubi dubium</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 02:27:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Richard:
&lt;blockquote&gt;In fact, there is sometimes whats known as an “extinction burst”, wherein the rate of behavior actually increases, briefly, following the cessation of reinforcement.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

Ahh - perhaps like a last burst of fervent prayer from a de-con, right before they finally admit that there was nobody listening after all.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Richard:</p>
<blockquote><p>In fact, there is sometimes whats known as an “extinction burst”, wherein the rate of behavior actually increases, briefly, following the cessation of reinforcement.</p></blockquote>
<p>Ahh &#8211; perhaps like a last burst of fervent prayer from a de-con, right before they finally admit that there was nobody listening after all.</p>
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		<title>By: Richard</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/07/16/existentialism-and-the-search-for-meaning/#comment-22932</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 01:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Theres also the issue of reinforcement.  Behaviorally, behaviors are generated more quickly using consistent reinforcement -- ie., every time you do x, you get a pellet -- but they are harder to extinguish when the reinforcement is intermittent.  I.e., behaviors generated when the reinforcement only occurs with *some* of those target behaviors tend to persist long after the reinforcement has ceased.  Think of slot machines.

In fact, there is sometimes whats known as an &quot;extinction burst&quot;, wherein the rate of behavior actually increases, briefly, following the cessation of reinforcement.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theres also the issue of reinforcement.  Behaviorally, behaviors are generated more quickly using consistent reinforcement &#8212; ie., every time you do x, you get a pellet &#8212; but they are harder to extinguish when the reinforcement is intermittent.  I.e., behaviors generated when the reinforcement only occurs with *some* of those target behaviors tend to persist long after the reinforcement has ceased.  Think of slot machines.</p>
<p>In fact, there is sometimes whats known as an &#8220;extinction burst&#8221;, wherein the rate of behavior actually increases, briefly, following the cessation of reinforcement.</p>
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		<title>By: Joe</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 23:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Snuggly---

Sorry---don&#039;t mean to be part of the &quot;jinx&quot; but this intrigued me and I&#039;ll keep it very short:

&quot;The natural human response to unanswered prayer would thus be to pray even harder.

What amazes me about this is that when I believed, this made sense to me.
Now I look back at it and marvel at the abject stupidity of it&quot;.

I guess my question would be what is stupid about it? Let me ask, when a writer submits manuscripts, and they are returned to him, or he hears nothing more from whom he sent them to, should he/she give up? Or should the person keep trying? Many authors have been &quot;rejected&quot; many, many times before they have a manuscript accepted.

&quot;Continuing to ask&quot; is an actual teaching of scripture. In Matthew 7 when it says &quot;Ask and you shall receive&quot; the actual verb tense is &quot;Keep asking and you shall receive&quot;. And Jesus talks about the neighbor, bugged over and over again, who finally answers the door. Jesus is not saying God is like an angry neighbor-----but he is saying to be persistent.  To keep asking---don&#039;t give up.  I just wanted to point that out.  Didn&#039;t mean to be part of a jinx.  LOL]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Snuggly&#8212;</p>
<p>Sorry&#8212;don&#8217;t mean to be part of the &#8220;jinx&#8221; but this intrigued me and I&#8217;ll keep it very short:</p>
<p>&#8220;The natural human response to unanswered prayer would thus be to pray even harder.</p>
<p>What amazes me about this is that when I believed, this made sense to me.<br />
Now I look back at it and marvel at the abject stupidity of it&#8221;.</p>
<p>I guess my question would be what is stupid about it? Let me ask, when a writer submits manuscripts, and they are returned to him, or he hears nothing more from whom he sent them to, should he/she give up? Or should the person keep trying? Many authors have been &#8220;rejected&#8221; many, many times before they have a manuscript accepted.</p>
<p>&#8220;Continuing to ask&#8221; is an actual teaching of scripture. In Matthew 7 when it says &#8220;Ask and you shall receive&#8221; the actual verb tense is &#8220;Keep asking and you shall receive&#8221;. And Jesus talks about the neighbor, bugged over and over again, who finally answers the door. Jesus is not saying God is like an angry neighbor&#8212;&#8211;but he is saying to be persistent.  To keep asking&#8212;don&#8217;t give up.  I just wanted to point that out.  Didn&#8217;t mean to be part of a jinx.  LOL</p>
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		<title>By: SnugglyBuffalo</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 22:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;blockquote&gt;I really enjoy it here when the threads lack the Christian apologists who doggedly bring up the same questions and answers over and over again.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Crap, you jinxed it! This thread is going to be full of them now.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>I really enjoy it here when the threads lack the Christian apologists who doggedly bring up the same questions and answers over and over again.</p></blockquote>
<p>Crap, you jinxed it! This thread is going to be full of them now.</p>
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		<title>By: LeoPardus</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 22:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&lt;i&gt;a non-event can’t create a recognizable patter&lt;/i&gt;

Interesting. I see just what you&#039;re saying. Ordinarilly, if you don&#039;t see something, then you just don&#039;t see it or think about it.  This can be a problem.  To get around it, you have to set up your perceptual &quot;grid&quot; ahead of itme.  This is what a well-designed experiment should do. Of course sometimes, if you build a patttern from perceptions, you may begin to see the &quot;holes&quot; in your pattern and thus discern the non-events.

I always thought psychology and neuroscience were interesting.....   
(Here comes the fallacy...)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>a non-event can’t create a recognizable patter</i></p>
<p>Interesting. I see just what you&#8217;re saying. Ordinarilly, if you don&#8217;t see something, then you just don&#8217;t see it or think about it.  This can be a problem.  To get around it, you have to set up your perceptual &#8220;grid&#8221; ahead of itme.  This is what a well-designed experiment should do. Of course sometimes, if you build a patttern from perceptions, you may begin to see the &#8220;holes&#8221; in your pattern and thus discern the non-events.</p>
<p>I always thought psychology and neuroscience were interesting&#8230;..<br />
(Here comes the fallacy&#8230;)<br />
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&#8230;. this proves it.   <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: orDover</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 22:14:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Confirmation bias is yet another form of pattern recognition. Technically speaking, a non-event can&#039;t create a recognizable patter, so unanswered prayers don&#039;t light up that &quot;It&#039;s a patter!&quot; trigger in our brains.

This is a great discussion. I really enjoy it here when the threads lack the Christian apologists who doggedly bring up the same questions and answers over and over again.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Confirmation bias is yet another form of pattern recognition. Technically speaking, a non-event can&#8217;t create a recognizable patter, so unanswered prayers don&#8217;t light up that &#8220;It&#8217;s a patter!&#8221; trigger in our brains.</p>
<p>This is a great discussion. I really enjoy it here when the threads lack the Christian apologists who doggedly bring up the same questions and answers over and over again.</p>
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