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		<title>By: titus2woman</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26498</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 14:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Doesn&#039;t the Bible tell us (in James?) to esteem all others as better than ourselves?  I don&#039;t recall any conditions there.... (((((HUGS)))))  sandi]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doesn&#8217;t the Bible tell us (in James?) to esteem all others as better than ourselves?  I don&#8217;t recall any conditions there&#8230;. (((((HUGS)))))  sandi</p>
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		<title>By: The de-Convert</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26489</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:33:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Peter,

Re: your post

Check this out: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.thebricktestament.com/the_teachings_of_jesus/on_love/lk06_17p20p27.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Teachings of Jesus on love&lt;/a&gt;.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Peter,</p>
<p>Re: your post</p>
<p>Check this out: <a href="http://www.thebricktestament.com/the_teachings_of_jesus/on_love/lk06_17p20p27.html" rel="nofollow">Teachings of Jesus on love</a>.</p>
<p>Paul</p>
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		<title>By: peter</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26487</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Sep 2008 00:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i think that this reaches the heart of why Jesus&#039; teachings are ridiculous.  we are supposed to &quot;love your enemies&quot;.  isnt this counterintuitive?  arent we supposed to &quot;love our neighbors and hate our enemies&quot;?

maybe this is why Jesus makes no sense to many.  yet, i find that in this i agree.  i do believe that we are to love those who are most despicable.  this stems from the love that i believe God shows to us.  i am often God&#039;s enemy, yet He continues to love me.

peter]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think that this reaches the heart of why Jesus&#8217; teachings are ridiculous.  we are supposed to &#8220;love your enemies&#8221;.  isnt this counterintuitive?  arent we supposed to &#8220;love our neighbors and hate our enemies&#8221;?</p>
<p>maybe this is why Jesus makes no sense to many.  yet, i find that in this i agree.  i do believe that we are to love those who are most despicable.  this stems from the love that i believe God shows to us.  i am often God&#8217;s enemy, yet He continues to love me.</p>
<p>peter</p>
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		<title>By: silentj</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26478</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 02:11:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think some of you have basically said this, but the first argument is a reduction of signs to a mathematical pattern, or rather a logical pattern, that doesn&#039;t operate the same in real life. Basically, the argument is the simple &quot;even selfless acts are selfish&quot; but run through Zeno. The argument becomes a rhetorical/logical game more than any serious thesis on morality or altruism. 

&quot;Morality,&quot; &quot;Love,&quot; and &quot;Altruism&quot; aren&#039;t tangible things like rocks or glass jars, things which can be seen, measured, etc. In fact, I don&#039;t think people even really think of them as abstract &quot;things&quot; so much as ways to describe how we behave, feel, or act. To say that morality has to have an individual&#039;s best or interest or the group&#039;s best interest in mind is simply a world view. At best, we have a general consensus about these terms, and that&#039;s about it. Even politically, &quot;morality&quot; means so many different things. 

The world and life are not black and white, even if the argument of whether they are black and white can be reduced to an A or B response. Not to be nasty, but this article seems to be the kind of pretentious coffee shop argument that philosophy undergrads have in between discussing which is the best Pavement record.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think some of you have basically said this, but the first argument is a reduction of signs to a mathematical pattern, or rather a logical pattern, that doesn&#8217;t operate the same in real life. Basically, the argument is the simple &#8220;even selfless acts are selfish&#8221; but run through Zeno. The argument becomes a rhetorical/logical game more than any serious thesis on morality or altruism. </p>
<p>&#8220;Morality,&#8221; &#8220;Love,&#8221; and &#8220;Altruism&#8221; aren&#8217;t tangible things like rocks or glass jars, things which can be seen, measured, etc. In fact, I don&#8217;t think people even really think of them as abstract &#8220;things&#8221; so much as ways to describe how we behave, feel, or act. To say that morality has to have an individual&#8217;s best or interest or the group&#8217;s best interest in mind is simply a world view. At best, we have a general consensus about these terms, and that&#8217;s about it. Even politically, &#8220;morality&#8221; means so many different things. </p>
<p>The world and life are not black and white, even if the argument of whether they are black and white can be reduced to an A or B response. Not to be nasty, but this article seems to be the kind of pretentious coffee shop argument that philosophy undergrads have in between discussing which is the best Pavement record.</p>
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		<title>By: Hugo</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26477</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 22:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m with LeoPardus and karen on this one.

There&#039;s something interesting to human altruism (*my* use of the word, I don&#039;t care if it is the &quot;wrong&quot; use): it may be experienced as altruism, but looking at it from a big-picture, it does become &quot;selfish&quot;.

If a mountain biker meets another with a flat, he&#039;d typically give him his spare tube, and expect nothing in return. He&#039;d rather ask the recipient to &quot;pay it forward&quot;. The result is a better society, the result and aim is arguably &quot;selfish&quot; from a big-picture perspective, and that&#039;s how human cooperation could evolve. But the individual&#039;s actions are not &lt;em&gt;directly&lt;/em&gt; beneficial to the individual, and is &lt;em&gt;experienced&lt;/em&gt; as a selfless act, despite it&#039;s ultimate &quot;selfish&quot; benefits. Contributing to wikipedia, to open source, etc etc...

Is it necessary to recognise the &quot;big picture selfishness&quot; of a moral and subjectively/experientially &quot;selfless&quot; act in order for it to be &quot;moral&quot;? Of course not, since my question reduces to &quot;moral acts are moral&quot;, heh.

But that&#039;s the easier question. Bigger sacrifices (a mother giving up a life for a child, or a revolutionary for a cause) can just as easily be considered &quot;selfish&quot; as long as you define the question right. Jesus dying in a protest of Roman oppression could also ultimately be considered selfish, as he selfishly died for the values he held dear? (Um, yea, here I&#039;m with the liberal Bible scholars in not paying too much attention to the substitutionary atonement for sins idea that seems to rule Christianity these days.)

But I&#039;m being overly verbose here, as all I&#039;m really talking about is semantics. Viva selfless self-sacrifice in selfish pursuit of greater ideals for human cooperation and compassion.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with LeoPardus and karen on this one.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s something interesting to human altruism (*my* use of the word, I don&#8217;t care if it is the &#8220;wrong&#8221; use): it may be experienced as altruism, but looking at it from a big-picture, it does become &#8220;selfish&#8221;.</p>
<p>If a mountain biker meets another with a flat, he&#8217;d typically give him his spare tube, and expect nothing in return. He&#8217;d rather ask the recipient to &#8220;pay it forward&#8221;. The result is a better society, the result and aim is arguably &#8220;selfish&#8221; from a big-picture perspective, and that&#8217;s how human cooperation could evolve. But the individual&#8217;s actions are not <em>directly</em> beneficial to the individual, and is <em>experienced</em> as a selfless act, despite it&#8217;s ultimate &#8220;selfish&#8221; benefits. Contributing to wikipedia, to open source, etc etc&#8230;</p>
<p>Is it necessary to recognise the &#8220;big picture selfishness&#8221; of a moral and subjectively/experientially &#8220;selfless&#8221; act in order for it to be &#8220;moral&#8221;? Of course not, since my question reduces to &#8220;moral acts are moral&#8221;, heh.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s the easier question. Bigger sacrifices (a mother giving up a life for a child, or a revolutionary for a cause) can just as easily be considered &#8220;selfish&#8221; as long as you define the question right. Jesus dying in a protest of Roman oppression could also ultimately be considered selfish, as he selfishly died for the values he held dear? (Um, yea, here I&#8217;m with the liberal Bible scholars in not paying too much attention to the substitutionary atonement for sins idea that seems to rule Christianity these days.)</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m being overly verbose here, as all I&#8217;m really talking about is semantics. Viva selfless self-sacrifice in selfish pursuit of greater ideals for human cooperation and compassion.</p>
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		<title>By: LeoPardus</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26476</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 22:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like Karen I thought of Ayn Rand when I started. In the end though this just falls under the heading of &quot;reductio ad absurdum&quot;. As such it advances nothing.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Like Karen I thought of Ayn Rand when I started. In the end though this just falls under the heading of &#8220;reductio ad absurdum&#8221;. As such it advances nothing.</p>
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		<title>By: becky</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26475</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 21:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[did you know that altruism is a defense mechanism as well?

becky]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>did you know that altruism is a defense mechanism as well?</p>
<p>becky</p>
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		<title>By: ordover</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 19:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To build off of comment #20, Rand, through her philosophy, encourages the act of selfishness. She sees selfishness has her moral code, and suggests others adopt it.

Evanescent isn&#039;t espousing anything. He isn&#039;t saying &quot;selflessness is immoral, therefore go out and be selfish.&quot; He&#039;s merely using reductionist logic to break down the term &quot;altruism&quot; without imposing any creed.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To build off of comment #20, Rand, through her philosophy, encourages the act of selfishness. She sees selfishness has her moral code, and suggests others adopt it.</p>
<p>Evanescent isn&#8217;t espousing anything. He isn&#8217;t saying &#8220;selflessness is immoral, therefore go out and be selfish.&#8221; He&#8217;s merely using reductionist logic to break down the term &#8220;altruism&#8221; without imposing any creed.</p>
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		<title>By: sequiturblog</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 19:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ScottL and Karen,

I have read the bulk of Ayn Rand&#039;s philosophy, and it is starkly different to what Evanescent is talking about here.

You could summarize Rand&#039;s philosophy by saying that she holds selfishness as a personal virtue.  

Evanescent is saying that simultaneously calling yourself selfless and altruistic is a contradiction in terms, because the practice of altruism requires one to hold up his moral ideal above others, which is a selfish act.  

Rand does not say this...


ScottL, you should really read Evanescent&#039;s article.  It&#039;s quite good.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ScottL and Karen,</p>
<p>I have read the bulk of Ayn Rand&#8217;s philosophy, and it is starkly different to what Evanescent is talking about here.</p>
<p>You could summarize Rand&#8217;s philosophy by saying that she holds selfishness as a personal virtue.  </p>
<p>Evanescent is saying that simultaneously calling yourself selfless and altruistic is a contradiction in terms, because the practice of altruism requires one to hold up his moral ideal above others, which is a selfish act.  </p>
<p>Rand does not say this&#8230;</p>
<p>ScottL, you should really read Evanescent&#8217;s article.  It&#8217;s quite good.</p>
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		<title>By: sequiturblog</title>
		<link>http://de-conversion.com/2008/09/05/why-selflessness-is-immoral/#comment-26472</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 18:52:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ScottL said: 
&quot;In the little bit I have just read, this article seems based on the philosophy of people like Ayn Rand.&quot;

ScottL clearly did not read this article.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ScottL said:<br />
&#8220;In the little bit I have just read, this article seems based on the philosophy of people like Ayn Rand.&#8221;</p>
<p>ScottL clearly did not read this article.</p>
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